The relation "has the same order of" is of equivalence in the set of all the groups. The relation "is isomorphic to" is of equivalence in each set made of the groups of one same order (so, in a sense, it gets a finer partition of the set of all the groups). The equivalence relation "is affinely isomorphic to" is equivalent to "being isomorphic to", so it doesn't add anything from this standpoint. So, my question is: are there "finer/coarser" equivalence relations than equipotency/isomorphicity ones, which we may define on the set of all the groups?
Edit. Agreed from the comments, equality is the finest.