I made some changes to my firewall (blocking outside dns and forcing it through my dns server), and I think that may be related to why it takes a minute to connect to user@192.168.1.2? See output -vvv in the pastebin. I tried googling the part where it gets stuck and I'm stumped. UseDNS is set to no.
https://pastebin.com/WMAyrnv1 <--Log here, I've noted where it gets stuck
Edit: Updated Pastebin link with some information.