Your question is completely clear.
In general you don't prove what a number is, you construct them. The construction will often be such that the various laws are satisfied.
I could, for example, first define the set of $2\times 2$ real matrices, and two rows and two columns of numbers that I write like this
$$
\pmatrix{a & b \\ c& d}
$$
The I can defined addition by
$$
\pmatrix{a_1 & b_1 \\ c_1& d_1} + \pmatrix{a_2 & b_2 \\ c_2 & d_2} = \pmatrix{a_1 + a_2 & b_1 + b_2 \\ c_1 + c_2 & d_1 + d_2}.
$$
Here the associativity (and commutativity) of the addition is clear since the real numbers have this property. Likewise, I can define multiplication the usual way and it is not hard to verify that the axioms for a ring are satisfied.
Now you might then ask: how do you we prove/know that the real numbers are a ring with this associative property?
For this you could consider the construction of the real numbers as Cauchy sequences of rational numbers. If you take a look at teh Wikipedia article, it again becomes clear that the associativity for the real numbers follows from the associativity of the rational numbers. And if you look at the construction/definition of the rational numbers, the associativity is clear from the associativity of the integers. So in this way we have reduced the question to one about the integers. If you look at this Wikipedia article this boils down to considering the natural numbers.
So how do we construct the natural numbers you ask. One way is to essentially define a natural number as a set. $0$ is the empty set. $1$ is the set with one element being the empty set and so on. You might want to take a look at this question with answers: How is addition defined? where the associativity is proved!