I realise that this question has been posted before here, but while trying to solve it myself, I ran into a block and I'm not sure how to proceed. This is how the question has been laid out in a practice paper:
Question 8 [20 marks] Let $X$ and $Y$ be non-abelian simple groups. Let $G=X\times Y$.
(a) ([10 marks]) Let $N$ be normal subgroup of $G$ not contained in $X\times\{e\}$. Prove that $N$ contains an element of the form $(e,y)$ for some $e\neq y\in Y$.
(b) ([10 marks]) Use item (1) to prove that the only normal subgroupsof $G$ are $G$, $X\times\{e\}$, $\{e\}\times Y$, and the trivial group.$\quad\:$Remark: You can use item (a) freely for item (b) even if you can not prove item (a).
Here is what I have so far: If $N$ is not contained in $X \times \{e\}$, then it must contain an element of the form $(x, y)$, where $y \in Y-\{e\}$. Since $N$ is normal, taking any element $(a, b) \in G$ and conjugating $(x, y)$ by it, we obtain $(axa^{-1}, byb^{-1}) \in N$. But if $byb^{-1} = e$, then $y=e$, so $byb^{-1} \in Y - \{e\}$. This implies $Y - \{e\}$ is normal, but since $Y$ is simple, $Y - \{e\} = \{e\} \text{ or } Y$, both of which are not possible. This is where I get stuck.
Would also appreciate any hints for part (b), thank you so much!