This question seeks an elementary proof for the following simple and intuitive fact:
Let $X$ and $Y$ be identically distributed, not necessarily independent, and $\mathbb E[X-Y]$ exist. Then, $$\mathbb E[X-Y]=0.$$
I think it should be examined somewhere in the literature.
The proof is straightforward when both $\mathbb E[X]$ and $\mathbb E[Y]$ are finite. I have a proof based on non-elementary results for the general case where $X$ and $Y$ may have undefined or infinite mean (e.g., $X=Y$ with the Cauchy distribution) as follows:
Proof: Rewrite $\mathbb E[X-Y]$ as $\mathbb E[\log e^X-\log e^ Y]$. Since both $U=e^ X$ and $V=e^ Y$ are positive, then using Lemma 2 given in this elegant answer by Sangchul Lee for $U \sim V$ we have: $$ \mathbb E[X-Y]=\mathbb{E}[\log(U/V)] = \\ \int_{0}^{\infty} \frac{\mathbb{E}[e^{-Vs}] - \mathbb{E}[e^{-Us}]}{s} \, \mathrm{d}s=0. $$
To prove Lemma 2 used above, advanced results such as the Frullani's integral and the Tonelli's theorem are used.
PS: It is worth noting that any random variable with zero mean can be represented as the difference of two identically distributed random variables [2].