No, there is no map
$\newcommand{\Homeo}{\operatorname{Homeo}}$
$F: \Homeo(S^1) \to O(2)$
which is both a group morphism and a homotopy equivalence.
To see this, consider the subgroup $\Homeo_+(S^1)$ of orientation-preserving homeomorphisms. This is the path-component of the identity in $\Homeo(S^1)$.
A map $F: \Homeo(S^1) \to O(2)$ which is a group morphism and a homotopy equivalence would necessarily restrict to a map with the same properties
$\overline{F}: \Homeo_+(S^1) \to SO(2)$ between the identity components. Hence, it suffices to show that there is no group morphism $\Homeo_+(S^1) \to SO(2)$ which is a homotopy equivalence.
Recall that a group $G$ is called perfect if $G = [G,G]$, i.e. every element is a product of commutators. It follows easily from the definition that
if $G$ is a
perfect group and $A$ is an abelian group, then the only morphism $G \to A$
is the trivial morphism.
Proposition: $\Homeo_+(S^1)$ is a perfect group.
For a proof, see Proposition 5.11 of the following paper:
Ghys, É. Groups acting on the circle. Enseign. Math., II. Sér. 47, No. 3-4, 329-407 (2001).
Since $SO(2)$ is abelian, it follows from the proposition that the only morphism $\Homeo_+(S^1) \to SO(2)$ is the trivial morphism.
On the other hand, the trivial morphism is not a homotopy equivalence since $SO(2)$ is not contractible. Therefore, there is no morphism $\Homeo_+(S^1) \to SO(2)$ which is a homotopy equivalence.