(I know nothing about this topic beyond the popular level, so apologies if this question is not well-posed.)
Every time I've seen this problem discussed, it's always implicit that P must either equal NP or not equal NP. Is it possible that P is related to NP by something other than equal or not equal? For example, could it be that P is related to NP in such a way that they are not exactly equal, but they are also not exactly unequal? (e.g. how time is related to space in general relativity)
Somewhat related: How do mathematicians know the problems they're trying to solve are not undecidable? suggests that this question could be undecidable, which would answer this question with "no, it does not have to be equal or not equal" - but that's an outcome that I never see mentioned either.