One thing that hasn't been said in the previous answers, and really needs to be emphasized, is that mathematics is not about guesswork, so we really cannot think "so it seems ok to ...". In mathematics, everything has to be precisely defined, and then whatever (precise) statement you make would be either true or false, and this is not up for debate.
Every item in the sequence clearly has finite number of decimals, and $1/3$ has infinite decimals so it is clearly not included.
Although not totally precise, you are essentially correct here. Precisely, each item in the sequence is equal to $k/10^m$ for some natural numbers $k,m$, but $1/3$ is not. We can prove this: Given any $k,m∈ℕ$ such that $1/3 = k/10^m$, we have $10^m = 3·k$, but $10^m = (9+1)^m$ $≡ 1^m = 1$ (mod $3$), whereas $3·k ≡ 0$ (mod $3$), so this is impossible.
On the other hand the limit of this sequence is $1/3$ so it seems ok to say that it "includes" $1/3$.
You can very well define "include" to mean something in order to make that sequence include its limit. But you must be very clear about the fact that it is not the conventional meaning of "include". So you were correct to use scare-quotes around "include", and it is important to realize how crucial precision is in mathematics.
Here is a standard mathematical notion that you may be interested in. Given any set $S ⊆ ℝ$, we say that $c$ is an adherent point of $S$ iff $c$ is a limit of some sequence from $S$. Given any sequence $f∈ℕ→ℝ$ and any $c∈ℝ$, it turns out that the following are equivalent:
- $c$ is an adherent point of $\{ \ f(k) : k∈ℕ \ \}$.
- There is some sequence $i∈ℕ→ℕ$ such that $f∘i$ converges to $c$.
- Either there is some increasing sequence $i∈ℕ→ℕ$ such that $f∘i$ converges to $c$ or there is some $k∈ℕ$ such that $f(k) = c$.
This notion may be the kind of relationship you are interested in, but it is not a good idea to call it "inclusion".