So I recently read the definition of a topological space and a topology from a book, and according to it, the topology must be closed under finite and infinite union, but it must only be closed under finite intersection. Clearly there is difference between requiring topologies to be closed under finite union and requiring them to be closed under both finite and infinite union, this is because imagine the topology is made up of infinite sets and every set sort of "adds" a new element to the infinite union, then there won't be any finite union that is equal to the infinite one, and thus some topologies might be closed under finite union only, but not under infinite union.
At first I thought maybe the reason why they definition doesn't explicitly say that it should be closed under infinite intersection was because it wouldn't change anything, as in, every topology that is closed under finite intersection will also be closed under infinite intersection, however I think I found a counterexample. Consider the set $X = \mathbb{N}$ and the topology $\tau = \{\emptyset, \mathbb{N}, (\mathbb{N} \setminus \mathbb{N}_2) \cup \{1\}, (\mathbb{N} \setminus \mathbb{N}_3) \cup \{1\}, (\mathbb{N} \setminus \mathbb{N}_4) \cup \{1\}, ... \}$ where we define $\mathbb{N}_i$ as the set $\{1, 2, 3,..., i\}$. This is a topology by the definition the book uses since it contains $X$ and $\emptyset$ and it's also closed under finite and infinite union as well as closed under finite intersection, however it is not closed under infinite intersection since it doesn't contain the set $\{1\}$.
So I have two questions, is my reasoning so far correct? and also, if it is, then why do we want the topology I showed before to be a topology and why not make a stronger requirement that it also needs to be closed under infinite intersection?