You didn't specify what kind of equivalence you are talking about, but I will assume you mean topological equivalence. Regardless, if two metrics are not topologically equivalent, then they cannot be equivalent in any other reasonable sense.
Instead of defining three such metics on a set $X$ we can define three metrics on some three sets, each of cardinality $|X|$. If we manage to make those spaces non-homeomorphic then we are done.
The topological invariant we are going to look at is: the number of non-isolated points. Since every homeomorphism has to map non-isolated points to non-isolated points, then if two spaces $X$, $Y$ have different number/cardinality of non-isolated points then they cannot be homeomorphic.
So how do we do that on an arbitrary infinite set $X$? First we generate a countable metric space $Y_n$ with $n$ non-isolated points. To do that we can first define $A_n=\{(n,1/k)\ |\ k\in \mathbb{N}\}\cup\{(n,0)\}$ and we put $Y_n=\bigcup_{i=1}^n A_i$. Then $Y_n$, with Euclidean metric, has exactly $n$ non-isolated points, namely: $(1,0),(2,0),\ldots,(n,0)$.
Then we take the disjoint union $X\sqcup Y_n$, and extend the Euclidean metric from $Y_n$ to whole $X\sqcup Y_n$ by putting $d(x,y)=1$ whenever $x\neq y$ and one of them is in $X$. This adds only isolated points to $Y_n$, and therefore $X\sqcup Y_n$ is a metric space of cardinality $|X|$ with exactly $n$ non-isolated points. Meaning $X\sqcup Y_n$ is not homeomorphic to $X\sqcup Y_m$ for $n\neq m$, yet they all are of cardinality $|X|$.
So here you go. I even gave you countably many such examples.