In complex analysis, we are taught that instead of coordinates $x$, $y$ on the complex plane, one can use $z$, $\bar{z}$, then, for instance, the Cauchy-Riemann conditions become $\frac{\partial }{\partial \bar{z}}f(z, \bar{z})=0$, and $\Delta = \frac{1}{4}\frac{\partial^2}{\partial z \partial \bar{z}}$. This was explained to me in the following way: we simply perform a change of coordinates $z = x + y$, $\bar{z}=x-y$ on $\mathbb{R}^2$. However, if this was the case, functions with $\frac{\partial }{\partial \bar{z}}=0$ would be constant along lines $y=-x+C$, which is clearly not true (for instance, this would mean isolated zeros or isolated singularities are impossible). In general, this means that $\partial_{\bar{z}}$ can't be understood as a directional derivative in the complex plane, i.e. as a vector field on the complex plane with real coefficients, because holomorphic functions would then be constant along the integral lines of this vector field. So, I guess, either the derivative or the change of coordinates should be understood in some other sense. Reading old MSE answers to similar questions, I understood that
a) This confusion about the meaning of $\partial_{\bar{z}}$ is very common among people studying complex analysis, including, apparently, those who answer questions about Wirtinger derivatives (because often the answers boil down to treating $\partial_{z}$ and $\partial_{\bar{z}}$ as real vector fields).
b) The correct answer (as opposed to hand-waving the issue) has something to do with the structure of complex manifold on $\mathbb{C}$.
So my question is: where can I find an elementary introduction to the theory of complex manifolds that would carefully explain how $\partial_{z}$ and $\partial_{\bar{z}}$ fields work?
Edit: Perhaps, I should explain that my naive understanding of complex manifolds leads to further confusions. For instance, $\mathbb{C}$ is a one-dimensional complex manifold. The experience teaches me it should have one linearly independent vector at each tangent space, not two, which raises more questions about what $\partial_{z}$ and $\partial_{\bar{z}}$ really are.