Referencing a question I asked previously, but asking more about methodology.
Suppose we have two Ito processes
$$dX_t = b_1(X_t)dt + \sqrt{2} dW_t \,,$$
$$dY_t = b_2(Y_t) dt + \sqrt{2} dW_t \,.$$
If we have a good reason to believe that the two processes are close or converge to the same stationary distribution, for example if $b_1$ and $b_2$ are close, then how can we show that $X_t$ and $Y_t$ are close? For example, by bounding $\mathbb{E}\|X_t - Y_t\|^2_2$? How is Ito's formula used in doing this? Say we define $e(t) = X_t - Y_t$ and examine the convergence of $e(t)$?
Thank you.
Edit: per the comment, let's say we want to bound $W^2_2(\text{law}(X_t), \text{law}(Y_t))$.