What kind of object is the (total) second derivative of a multivariate function? Is it best seen intuitively as a multilinear map, or as the algebraic form associated with such a map?
More specifically, if we have a scalar function of two variables $f(x,y)$, we might associate its second derivative with the matrix
$$\mathbf H = \begin{bmatrix} \frac{\partial^2 f}{\partial x^2} & \frac{\partial^2 f}{\partial x \partial y} \\ \frac{\partial^2 f}{\partial x \partial y} & \frac{\partial^2 f}{\partial y^2} \end{bmatrix}.$$
We can either interpret this as representing the bilinear map $B(\mathbf u,\mathbf v)$ given by $B(\mathbf u,\mathbf v) = \mathbf u^\top \mathbf H \mathbf v$, or we can focus more on the quadratic form $Q(\mathbf u) = B(\mathbf u,\mathbf u)$.
If you read the Wikipedia entry on Total Derivatives in higher dimensions, it seems to favor the view that the $k$th derivative is a $k$-linear map. But how then do we interpret the vector inputs (in this case two of them)? It makes more sense to me to think about the Taylor expansion $$f\left(x+\Delta x,\, y+\Delta y\right) \approx f(x,y) + \frac{\partial f}{\partial x}\Delta x+\frac{\partial f}{\partial y}\Delta y+\frac{\partial^2 f}{\partial x^2}\frac{\Delta x^2}{2!}+\frac{\partial^2 f}{\partial x\partial y}\Delta x\Delta y+\frac{\partial^2 f}{\partial y^2}\frac{\Delta y^2}{2!},$$
and to see the second derivative as the quadratic form at the end (last three terms) with only a single vector input. This generalizes nicely the one-dimensional case where the second derivative can be seen as finding the closest second-order approximation to a function when we perturb its input by a small number/vector.
Is the bilinear map (multilinear map) of any use apart from the quadratic form (algebraic form) it gives rise to? The Wikipedia page says the $k$th derivative is
the "best" (in a certain precise sense) k-linear approximation to f at that point.
What does this mean intuitively? (Please aim answers at the level of a multivariate calculus/linear algebra student.) Are we now perturbing the input by multiple different vectors simultaneously? Or by a multivector of some kind?
On a related note, what about the first (total) derivative of a multivariate function? Is it a linear map or a linear form? I'm aware that for a function like $f:\mathbb R^2\to\mathbb R$ they amount to the same thing, but linear forms, quadratic forms, cubic forms, etc., make sense to me as the best first-, second-, third-order, etc. approximations to the function. On the other hand I don't know what a bilinear, trilinear, etc. map is supposed to mean intuitively.