I'm doing self-study in Calculus, and I'm having trouble with intuitively understanding derivatives.
The definition of a derivative is: $\lim _{h\to 0}\left(\frac{f\left(x+h\right)-f\left(x\right)}{h}\right)$.
Also, I will note that H Does not Equal Zero.
Here is the issue I'm having: As $\lim _{h\to 0}\:$ does not equal zero, and therefore $h$ does not equal $0$, there will always be some infinitesimally small distance between $x$ and $x+h$. Therefore, the derivative is NOT a rate of change at one point, but a rate of change between $x$ and some small infinitesimal distance. I suppose one could say the slope between $x$ and $x+\text{infinitesimal}$ is close to a rate of change at a single point, but it's not the same thing. Maybe an approximation, but an approximation is not the same as the actual.
What am I missing here? Thanks in advance for any assistance!