We have $5$ candles each having a lifetime which follows an exponential distribution with parameter $\lambda$. We light up each candle at time $t=0$.
Assume that $Y$ is the time that it takes for the third candle to go off. What is the expectation and variance of $Y$?
My try: First of all, I believe having $5$ candles is irrelevant. We only need to consider one random variable following the exponential distribution, like $X\sim \exp(\lambda)$. It means that on average, it takes $\frac{1}{\lambda}$ for the candle to go off. However, this does not seem like a random variable. It seems like it is a constant. Then, it won't be meaningful to calculate the expectation and variance. Am I right?
Also, we know that at some point, the candle "will" go off. So, does this mean that we cannot predict at which time it will? I am totally confused thinking about these concepts. I appreciate if someone enlightens me.
Note: There is a similar question here. However, the question has not been answered due to the lack of attemps provided by the OP.