Let $X_1,X_2,\dots$ be continuous random variables with full support (I need the result when they follow AR time series $X_i=\alpha X_{i-1}+\varepsilon_i$ for iid epsilons. But if you will consider iid case, it may also help with the time series case) with their stationary distribution function $F$. Notation $X_{n; (k)}$ represents the $k-$th order statistic, i.e. $X_{n; (1)}=\min_{i\leq n} X_i$.
Let $k_n\in\mathbb{N}$ fulfill $$k_n\to\infty, \frac{k_n}{n}\to 0 \text{, for } n\to\infty.$$
Let $$u_n=quantile(X_1, 1-\frac{k_n}{n}), \text{ i.e. } P(X_1>u_n)=\frac{k_n}{n}.$$
Is the following true $$\frac{n}{k_n}P(X_{n; (n-k_n)}>X_1>u_n)\overset{n\to\infty}{\to}0?$$
Maybe a helpful observation is that this is equal to $$ \frac{n}{k_n}P(X_{n; (n-k_n)}>X_1>u_n)=P(X_{n; (n-k_n)}>X_1\mid X_1>u_n)=1-P(\hat{F}(X_1)>1-\frac{k_n}{n}\mid F(X_1)>1-\frac{k_n}{n}). $$