I can find definitions of the gradient flow of a scalar field $f$ as $$\frac{d \xi}{dt} = - \nabla_\xi f$$ in here and here.
Gradient descent can be used to find a minimum in $f$ and can be written as $$\xi_{i+1} = \xi_{i} - \lambda \nabla_\xi f,$$ where $\lambda$ is a constant scalar.
As far as I understand, gradient descent is nothing other than discretized gradient flow. So I set $\lambda = 1$ to obtain $$\frac{d \xi}{dt} = \lim_{\Delta t \rightarrow 0} \frac{\xi_{i+1} - \xi_i}{\Delta t} = - \lim_{\Delta t \rightarrow 0} \frac{\nabla_\xi f}{\Delta t} = - \frac{d}{dt} \nabla_\xi f \stackrel{???}{=} - \nabla_\xi f = \frac{d \xi}{dt}.$$
This does not make much sense to me... Shouldn’t both $\frac{d \xi}{dt}$ give the same? What mistake am I making? Could anyone help me, please?