I am studying Universal Algebra using the book of Clifford Bergman and I encounter trouble in one of the exercises.
Task (2.12 - 3.) Let $L$ be a copy of $N_5$ with elements $\{a,b,c,u,v\}$ and $u<a<b<v$. Let $\theta$ be a congruence on $L$. Prove that $\theta\neq O_L$ implies $(a,b)\in\theta$.
Notation Here $N_5$ is the pentagon-shaped five element lattice, where $v$ serves as 1, $u$ as 0 and we have two linear sublattices $u<a<b<v$ and $u<c<v$. Other then this, elements are uncomparable.
By $0_L$ we mean trivial congruence where each block of equivalence is a singleton.
My approach So one can understand congruences just as partitioning elements of lattice into subsets (classes of equivalence) such that if I take two elements from one class of elements then both their meet and their join still lie in a given class of equivalence.
But if I take partition $\theta$ as $\{a\}$ and $\{b,c,u,v\}$ clearly $(a,b)\notin \theta$ but it seems to me that this is indeed a congruence.
I tried taking couples of elements, I tried thinking about it but it seems to me that if I take $x,y\in \{b,c,u,v\}$ then both their meet and join cannot be $a$
So I am clearly missing something here. Can anyone point out my mistake? Why $\theta$ is not congruence?