I've seen the way to "prove"/"derive" for a continuous random variable $Y$ the probability of event $A$ given the event $\{Y=y\}$ is the intuition that the event $\{Y=y\} = \lim_{\delta \to 0} \{y - \frac{\delta}{2} \le Y\le y + \frac{\delta}{2}\}$. What I've seen then is:
To find $P(A|Y=y)$ is to first evaluate $$P\left(A|Y\in\left(y-\frac{\delta}{2}, y+\frac{\delta}{2}\right)\right)$$ and then take the limit as $\delta \to 0$.
But doesn't this method assume that
$$\lim_{\delta\to 0}P\left(A|Y\in\left(y-\frac{\delta}{2}, y+\frac{\delta}{2}\right)\right)\overset{?}{=}P\left(A|\lim_{\delta\to 0}\bigg\{Y\in\left(y-\frac{\delta}{2}, y+\frac{\delta}{2}\right)\bigg\}\right)=P(A|Y=y) \ ?$$
I might be skirting on the edges of measure theory (which I am not familiar with) but is there an intuitive way to make this claim seem intuitive/convincing? Or is there a result which shows why this is valid to do, if it is? Addition: Thanks to @Masoud - how would you know the limit always exists, if it does?
Example:
I'd like to add an example which lead me to this. Suppose $N_{t_1, t_2}$ represents the number of occurrences of a phenomenon in the time interval $(t_1, t_2]$ for $0<t_1<t_2$. Suppose you are given the last occurrence was at time $s$. Let $X$ be the time until the next occurrence of the phenomenon, starting at time $s$. We need to find the distribution of $X$. (For those of you familiar this is related to the well know poison process).
Then, the probability $$\mathbb P (X>t|\text{Last occurrence was time }s)=\mathbb{P}(N_{s,s+t} = 0|\text{Last occurrence was time }s)$$
and this point, since there's no way to definition the conditional null set in terms of $N_{t_1, t_2}$, I saw the source do $$\mathbb{P}(N_{s,s+t} = 0|\text{Last occurrence was time }s) \overset{?}{=} \lim_{h\to 0} \mathbb P(N_{s+h,s+t+h} = 0| N_{s+h, s}=1)$$
On what basis can we apply such a limit? I couldn't find a definition to state when you can do something like this. In this case, the limit is being applied in both the condition to help with the null set, and the set for which we're finding the probability too!
Thanks in advance