Let $X$ be a non-compact locally compact Hausdorff space and $(\mu_\alpha)_{\alpha \in A}$ a net of signed Radon measures with bounded variation that converges weakly (= relative to $C_b(X)$) to some signed Radon measure $\mu$. Assume that $(\mu_\alpha)_{\alpha \in A}$ is uniformly tight, i.e. for all $\varepsilon > 0$ there is a compact $K \subseteq X$ such that $\sup_\alpha |\mu_\alpha|(X \setminus K) < \varepsilon$. Does it follow that $(\mu_\alpha)_{\alpha \in A}$ is (eventually) uniformly bounded, i.e. $\sup_{\alpha \geq \alpha_0} \lVert \mu_\alpha \rVert < \infty$ for some $\alpha_0$?
Note that
- a set of measures that is uniformly tight need not be uniformly bounded, e.g. $\{ n \delta_x \mid n \in \mathbb{N} \}$. But the sequence forming this set is not weakly convergent.
- if the $\mu_\alpha$ are positive (no need for tightness) then $(\mu_\alpha)_{\alpha \in A}$ is eventually uniformly bounded (because $\lVert \mu_\alpha \rVert = \mu_\alpha(X) = \mu_\alpha 1_X$ converges ($1_X \in C_b(X)$)
- if $(\mu_\alpha)_{\alpha \in \mathbb{N}}$ is a sequence (no need for tightness) then $(\mu_\alpha)_{\alpha \in \mathbb{N}}$ is uniformly bounded (convergent sequences with their limit form a weakly compact set and these are uniformly bounded)
- without tighness, a weakly convergent net need not be eventually uniformly bounded, see here.
To prove the conjecture, one could take for $\varepsilon = 1$ a compact set $K$ such that $\sup_\alpha |\mu_\alpha|(X \setminus K) \leq 1$ and split $\lVert \mu_\alpha \rVert = |\mu_\alpha|(X) = |\mu_\alpha|(X \setminus K) + |\mu_\alpha|(K)$. If $|\mu_\alpha|(K)$ converges then we are done. One can also construct a $\psi \in C_b(X)$ with $\psi = 1$ on $K$ and $0 \leq \psi \leq 1$ such that $|\mu_\alpha|(K) \leq |\mu_\alpha| \psi = \int \psi d|\mu_\alpha|$ and check whether this upper bound converges. However, we only know that $\mu_\alpha \psi$ converges. It holds $|\mu_\alpha| \psi = \sup \{ \mu_\alpha \varphi \mid |\varphi| \leq \psi, \varphi \in C_b(X) \}$.
For a counterexample, $\mu_\alpha$ must be necessarily a net (not a sequence) and consist of signed measures (not positive). For $X = \mathbb{R}$ I tried a net such as $m (\delta_0 - \delta_{\frac{1}{n}})$ with index set $\mathbb{N} \times \mathbb{N}$ directed by $(n, m) \leq (n', m')$ defined as $n \leq n', m \in \mathbb{N}$ or as $n \leq n', m \leq m'$, but this net does not weakly converge.