For any $x\neq0$ in a Lie algebra $L$, is there always a matrix representation $\rho:L\to\mathfrak{gl}(V)$ such that $\rho(x)^2\neq0$ ?
(Of course $\rho(x)^2$ means ordinary multiplication/composition, not the commutator.)
All the spaces involved are finite-dimensional, over $\mathbb R$ (or some field with characteristic $0$, or not $2$; but maybe this is irrelevant).
This question generalizes to $\rho(x)^k\neq0$ for various $k$, and further to $\det\!\big(\rho(x)\big)\neq0$.