Throughout the question, please keep in mind that I know very little differential geometry. I.e., just the intrinsic definitions of differentiable/Riemannian manifolds and the metric tensor, etc. I am trying to understand the definition of the cross product given by Wikipedia here:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cross_product#Index_notation_for_tensors
The article says that we can define the cross product $c$ of two vectors $u$,$v$ given a suitable "dot product" $\eta^{mi}$ as follows
$c^m := \sum_{i=1}^3\sum_{j=1}^3\sum_{k=1}^3\eta^{mi}\epsilon_{ijk}u^jv^k$
To demonstrate my current understanding of this definition, I will introduce some notation and terminology. Then I will show where my confusion arises with an example. I do apologize in advance for the length of this post.
Let $M$ be a smooth Riemannian manifold on $\mathbb{R}^3$ with the metric tensor $g$. Pick a coordinate chart $(U,\phi)$ with $\phi$ a diffeomorphism. We define a collection $\beta = \{b_i:U \to TM | i\in\{1,2,3\}\}$ of vector fields, called coordinate vectors, as follows
$b_i(x) := \Big(x,\big(\delta_x \circ \frac{\partial{\phi^{-1}}}{\partial{q_i}} \circ \phi\big)(x)\Big)$
where $\delta_x:\mathbb{R}^3 \to T_xM$ denotes the canonical bijection. The coordinate vectors induce a natural basis $\gamma_x$ at each point $x \in U$ for the tangent space $T_xM$. Let $[g_x]_S$ denote the matrix representation of the metric tensor at the point $x$ in the standard basis for $T_xM$ and let $[g_x]_{\gamma_x}$ denote the matrix representation in the basis $\gamma_x$.
My understanding of the above definition of the cross product now follows. Let $u,v \in T_xM$ be tangent vectors and let
$[u]_{\gamma_x}=\begin{bmatrix} u_1\\ u_2\\ u_3 \end{bmatrix}$ $\space \space \space \space \space \space [v]_{\gamma_x}=\begin{bmatrix} v_1\\ v_2\\ v_3 \end{bmatrix}$
denote the coordinates of $u,v$ in the basis $\gamma_x$. Then we define the $m$th coordinate of the cross product $u \times v \in T_xM$ in the basis $\gamma_x$ as
$\big([u \times v]_{\gamma_x}\big)_m := \sum_{i=1}^3\sum_{j=1}^3\sum_{k=1}^3\big([g_x]_{\gamma_x}\big)_{mi}\epsilon_{ijk}u_jv_k$
Now I will demonstrate my apparent misunderstanding with an example. Let the manifold $M$ be the usual Riemannian manifold on $\mathbb{R}^3$ and let $\phi$ be given by
$\phi(x_1,x_2,x_3) = (x_1,x_2,x_3-x_1^2-x_2^2)$
$\phi^{-1}(q_1,q_2,q_3)=(q_1,q_2,q_3+q_1^2+q_2^2)$
The Jacobian matrix $J$ of $\phi^{-1}$ is
$J=\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 0 & 0 \\\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\\ 2q_1 & 2q_2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$ $\space \space \space \space \space \space J^{-1}=\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 0 & 0 \\\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\\ -2q_1 & -2q_2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$
And the matrix representation of the metric tensor in the basis $\gamma_x$ is
$[g_x]_{\gamma_x} = J^T[g_x]_SJ = \begin{bmatrix} 1+4q_1^2 & 4q_1q_2 & 2q_1 \\\ 4q_1q_2 & 1+4q_2^2 & 2q_2 \\\ 2q_1 & 2q_2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$
Now choose $x=(1,1,-1)$. The coordinates of $x$ are evidently $\phi(x) = (1,1,1)$ and the three matrices above become
$J=\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 0 & 0 \\\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\\ 2 & 2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$ $\space \space \space \space \space \space J^{-1}=\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 0 & 0 \\\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\\ -2 & -2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$ $\space \space \space \space \space \space [g_x]_{\gamma_x} = \begin{bmatrix} 5 & 4 & 2 \\\ 4 & 5 & 2 \\\ 2 & 2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$
Now we compute the cross product in the basis $\gamma_x$. Using my understanding of the definition as outlined above, I get
$[u \times v]_{\gamma_x} = \begin{bmatrix} 36 \\\ 35 \\\ 16 \end{bmatrix}$
If we instead compute the cross product in the standard basis, then using my understanding of the definition, I get
$[u \times v]_S = \begin{bmatrix} 0 \\\ -1 \\\ 2 \end{bmatrix}$
Naturally, these results ought to agree if we perform a change of basis on $[u \times v]_{\gamma_x}$. Doing just that, I get
$[u \times v]_S = J[u \times v]_{\gamma_x} = \begin{bmatrix} 1 & 0 & 0 \\\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\\ 2 & 2 & 1 \end{bmatrix} \begin{bmatrix} 36 \\\ 35 \\\ 16 \end{bmatrix} = \begin{bmatrix} 36 \\\ 35 \\\ 158 \end{bmatrix}$
Clearly, these do not agree. I can think of several reasons for this. Perhaps the definition given on Wikipedia is erroneous or only works for orthogonal coordinates. Perhaps I am misinterpreting the definition given on Wikipedia. Or maybe I have made an error somewhere in my calculation. My question is then as follows. How should I interpret the definition given on Wikipedia, and how should one express that definition using the notation provided here?