It sounds like for elements $x,y\in R,$ you can find $\gcd(x,y),$ though you don't specify how you would do that. I suspect you'd use something like the Euclidean algorithm. Once we go through all the steps of the EA, we can back-substitute to obtain an equation of the form $$ax+by=\gcd(x,y)$$ for some $a,b\in R.$ From this, we immediately find (from your previous result) that $\gcd(x,y)\in\langle x,y\rangle,$ so that $$\bigl\langle\gcd(x,y)\bigr\rangle\subseteq\langle x,y\rangle.$$ Do you see why?
On the other hand, since $x=c\gcd(x,y)$ and $y=d\gcd(x,y)$ for some $c,d\in R,$ then we immediately have $x,y\in\bigl\langle\gcd(x,y)\bigr\rangle,$ so that $$\bigl\langle\gcd(x,y)\bigr\rangle\supseteq\langle x,y\rangle.$$ Do you see why?
You may not be familiar with the back-substitution idea I refer to above, so I'll demonstrate that, then talk about how the proof outline above generalizes.
For example, we can use the EA to find that $3=\gcd(180,51)$ as follows: $$180=3\cdot 51+27\\51=1\cdot 27+24\\27=1\cdot 24+3\\24=8\cdot 3.$$ The final equation just lets us know we're done with the algorithm, so let's look at the others. They can be rewritten equivalently as $$1\cdot180+(-3)\cdot 51=27\\51+(-1)\cdot27=24\\27+(-1)\cdot24=3.$$ Using the first of these to substitute for $27$ in the other two equations gives us (after gathering like terms) $$(-1)\cdot180+4\cdot51=24\\1\cdot180+(-3)\cdot51+(-1)\cdot24=3.$$ Using the first of these to substitute for $24$ in the other gives us $$2\cdot180+(-7)\cdot 51=3,$$ which has the desired form.
Here's the kicker that will let you get the rest of the way. Show that $\gcd(x,y,z)=\gcd\bigl(\gcd(x,y),z\bigr),$ so that $ax+by+cz=\gcd(x,y,z)$ for some $a,b,c\in R.$ From there, a straightforward proof by induction on $n$ lets us show that, given $x_1,...,x_n\in R,$ there exist $a_1,...,a_n\in R$ such that $$a_1x_1+\cdots+a_nx_n=\gcd(x_1,...,x_n),$$ thereby allowing us to follow the proof outline I gave above when dealing with more than two elements.
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