A pair of square matrices $X$ and $Y$ are called similar if there exists a nonsingular matrix $T$ such that $T^{-1}XT=Y$ holds. It is known that the transformation matrix $T$ is not unique for given $X$ and $Y$. I'm just wondering whether those non-unique transformation matrices would have any relation among themselves, like having column vectors with same directions...
What I want to mean is: Given $X$ and $Y$ a pair of similar matrices, if $S$ and $T$ are two possible transformation matrices satisfying $S^{-1}XS = T^{-1}XT = Y$, is there any generic (apart from scaling) relation between $T$ and $S$ (e.g., direction of column vectors)?
For a specific example, consider $X = \begin{bmatrix} A & BK\\ C & 0 \end{bmatrix}$ and $Y = \begin{bmatrix} A+A^{-1}BKC & -A^{-1}BKCA^{-1}B\\ KC & -KCA^{-1}B \end{bmatrix}$. Assuming $K$ to be invertible it can be shown that $X$ and $Y$ are similar with transformation matrix $T = \begin{bmatrix} I & -A^{-1}B\\ 0 & K^{-1} \end{bmatrix}$. Can there be any other matrix $S$ which will be independent of $K$, and would result $S^{-1}XS=Y$?