$$ \color{darkcyan}{\frac{dy}{dx}} = \lim_{h \to 0} \frac{f(x+h) - f(x)}{h}$$ $$ \color{darkcyan}{m} = \lim_{x \to a} \frac{f(x) - f(a)}{x-a} $$ Text source: https://i.sstatic.net/Kn3Bm.png
I think I have a fairly solid understanding of the derivative, but I don't get how it helps us find instantaneous velocity at a point. It only gives us the velocity that we can get infinitely close to, but that's not the velocity at the point. The velocity at the point is undefined as x-x in the denominator = 0.
I get the following about limits and derivatives:
That the limit is an actual value, not an approximation. The limit is the actual value that we are getting infinitely closer to.
That the derivative is the limit of the slope of x and a, as a is moved infinitely closer to a. It is the slope that is being approached, as a gets infinitely close to x.
But while this lets us know what the velocity is between two points as they get infinitely close to each other, that still doesn't give the actual instantaneous velocity at that point, because to find the actual velocity at that single instant, you have to do f(x)-f(x)/x-x= 0/0 = undefined. So how does the concept of the derivative give us instantaneous velocity?
How can this be explained without epsilon delta proofs, at the level of someone learning Khan Academy calculus?