Suppose we have two planes given by the parametric equations
$$\begin{align} &\eta_1~:~\vec{x}_1~=~\vec{o}_1+\vec{R}_{11}t_{11}+\vec{R}_{12}t_{12}\\ &\eta_2~:~\vec{x}_2~=~\vec{o}_2+\vec{R}_{21}t_{21}+\vec{R}_{22}t_{22} \end{align}$$
where all occuring vectors are elements of $\mathbb{R}^3$. We can also describe these planes by the following equations
$$\begin{align} &\eta_1~:~(\vec{x}_1-\vec{o}_1)\cdot(\vec{R}_{11}\times\vec{R}_{12})\\ &\eta_2~:~(\vec{x}_2-\vec{o}_2)\cdot(\vec{R}_{21}\times\vec{R}_{22}) \end{align}$$
The main target I attempt to fulfill is to transform $\eta_1$ to $\eta_2$. I want to this in two steps $(1)$ Making both planes parallel $(2)$ Shift $\eta_1$ to be equal to $\eta_2$.
I tried to approach by using the normal vectors of the both planes and so to solve the equation $\textbf{T}\vec{n}_1=\vec{n}_2$ for $\textbf{T}\in \mathbb{R}^{3\times3}$. To be honest I have to clue from hereon and I guess this is not even the right attempt. What I can say about the matrix-vector equation is that the eigenvalues, or atleast one of the eigenvalues, of the matrix $\textbf{T}$ has to $1$ and therefore $\vec{n}_2$ would be an eigenvector of $\textbf{T}$. I am familiar with the concept of rotation matrices around the different axis for an angle $\alpha$ which are given by
$$\begin{align*} \textbf{T}_x&=\begin{pmatrix}1&0&0\\0&\cos(\alpha)&-\sin(\alpha)\\0&\sin(\alpha)&\cos(\alpha)\end{pmatrix}\\ \textbf{T}_y&=\begin{pmatrix}\cos(\alpha)&0&-\sin(\alpha)\\0&1&0\\\sin(\alpha)&0&\cos(\alpha)\end{pmatrix}\\ \textbf{T}_z&=\begin{pmatrix}\cos(\alpha)&-\sin(\alpha)&0\\\sin(\alpha)&\cos(\alpha)&0\\0&0&1\end{pmatrix} \end{align*}$$
but since I do not know the angle $\alpha$ this does not help me at all. Another attempt would be to compute all angles alone and then jsut multiply the matrices $\textbf{T}_x$, $\textbf{T}_y$ and $\textbf{T}_z$ but hence this does not seem that efficient I am not sure about this.
Mainly I want to know I there is a way to construct $\textbf{T}$ out of $\vec{n}_1$ and $\vec{n}_2$ or atleast out of the given defintion of $\eta_1$ and $\eta_2$. If it is not possible could you please explain to me why this is so. Furthermore could maybe someone provide an example transform of a plane $\eta_1$ to plane $\eta_2$ by using a general algorithm if there exist such as thing.
Thanks in advance!