I think this question is more philosophical than mathematical, though I may be wrong, probably it is just a stupid lack of understanding. Anyway, if you don't mind, please read the question carefully to get the sense of what I am asking. It is a bit difficult to express.
Tensors and differential geometry consider oblique (non-orthogonal) and even curvilinear "axes" or basis vectors. But, the basis vectors themselves must be expressed somehow. Does this require going back to some underlying "master" orthogonal (Cartesian) coordinate system?
Here are two examples of my puzzle.
Example 1.
A vector $\mathbf{v}$ can be written in terms of Cartesian coordinates as $$ \mathbf{v} = v^k \mathbf{e}_k $$ where $e_k$ are the regular basis vectors (in the 3D case, (1,0,0), (0,1,0), (0,0,1)). A vector can also be written in terms of an arbitrary non-orthogonal system as for example $$ \mathbf{v} = w^k \mathbf{u}_k $$ Suppose that $w^k$ are given. To know the vector, we have to know what the vectors $\mathbf{u}_k$ are, and these would either have to be specified in terms of an underlying Cartesian coordinate system, for example $$ \mathbf{u}_2 = (0.3, 0.799, -0.1) $$ or in terms of some other coordinate system, which in turn(!) (possibility of infinite regress here) would need to be specified eventually in terms of the Cartesian coordinate system?
I suppose if the other coordinate system is a physical given thing (lines drawn by aliens in the desert) then one can avoid the issue.
Example 2.
In Susskind's Einstein's General Theory of Relativity | Lecture 5
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtPtxz3ef8U
at around 18:30 he describes why the derivative of the components of a tensor are not themselves a tensor, giving the example of a field of constant-direction-and-constant-magnitude vectors. The derivatives of components of these vectors w.r.t. cartesian axes are zero, but the derivatives w.r.t spatially varying axes are non-zero.
Here we have some vectors, which appear to be pointing in the same direction, and measure them using some underlying axes, which certainly appear to be curving. But how do we know that the vectors are pointing in the same direction and the axes are curving and not the other way? In everyday live, of course I can see that what was drawn on the white board was straight/curving, but that is not a scientific answer. Don't we need to measure with respect to some other coordinate system, and wouldn't that one be...(eventually)...Cartesian?
Note, it sounds that someone in the class was possibly asking this question around 18:30, but the professor closed the question.
EDIT: Seeing the first 3 answers, it is clear that I failed to explain the question... or else the question is just nonsense. I fear that I am missing something very fundamental! Surprising however. The idea of a basis is something I have successfully used in various exercises and is second nature at this point.