An answer to a request for an example of a tensor here is as follows:
Here is the concrete example: concrete. When a structural material is stressed, the state of stress is described by a tensor. It’s not a scalar and it’s not a vector. Any tiny spherical element is deformed in general into an ellipsoid. It takes five numbers to specify that ellipsoid: three for the stretchings of the principal axes, and two for the orientation of the long axis. That’s a tensor. (There are other ways to specify the five parameters but they come to the same thing.)
This makes a lot of sense; however, I "understand" a tensor according to the definition:
A $(p,q)$ tensor, $T$ is a MULTILINEAR MAP that takes $p$ copies of $V^*$ and $q$ copies of $V$ and maps multilinearly (linear in each entry) to $k:$
$$T: \underset{p}{\underbrace{V^*\times \cdots \times V^*}}\times \underset{q}{\underbrace{V\times\times \cdots V\times V}} \overset{\sim}\rightarrow K\tag 1$$
According to this definition, the "end product" of a tensor would be a real number, not $5$.
This misunderstanding may also be at the root of my confusion about the result of this example of a tensor product.