Think of a simple cubic planar graph $G$ with no triangles (let's call the set of such graphs plus the empty graph, $[G]$). Now pick a vertex and remove it and all its edges. You're left with a graph having 3 vertices of degree 2. Replace the edges with these left-over vertices by plain edges and you get back a cubic planar graph. It doesn't matter in which order you remove vertices in that way, so the operation is commutative.
The situation changes when you like to add vertices: Imagine you'd like to add two vertices inside the same face of a graph. It's easy to see that the order how you add vertices, in the opposite way as described above, matters, when the face, where you put the new vertex has only 4 vertices: To add a vertex you need to choose 3 edges that will be connected to the new vertex and by that it might not be possible to add the second vertex without violating planarity.
For larger face degrees there might be situations, where the addition of two vertices still commutes.
This brings us to an interesting situation:
- All resulting elements after the operation are cubic planar graphs
- Every addition of a vertex has an inverse element: its removal
- Removal is commutative
- Addition is not (in general)
What kind of algebraic structure is that? Is it a (free) group?
EDIT
You might also put another cubic planar graph $G'$ inside a given face $f$ of $G$ , choose three outer edge $(a,b,c)$ of $G'$ and now join the middle of these outer edges and connect them to the middle of three edges $(A,B,C)$ of the face where you put $G'$. This shows the closure of our operation. I'll denote this sum of graphs as $G'(a,b,c) \oplus_f G(A,B,C)$.
Associativity is shown when you realize that $$ G''(x,y,z)\oplus_{f'}\biggr(G'(a,b,c)\oplus_f G(A,B,C)\biggr)=\biggr(G''(x,y,z) \oplus_{f'} G'(a,b,c)\biggr)\oplus_fG(A,B,C), $$ where $f'$ is a face inside $G'$.
We already had some examples of inverse elements at the beginning: We inserted points and subtracted them. If we revert the operation $G'(a,b,c)\oplus_fG(A,B,C)$, we get a free-floating component $G'$ inside $G$, that can subsequently be reduce to either a tetrahedron or triangular prism graph and finally to single point, that we just drop out.
The identity element is the empty graph.
-> So all properties of a group are, more than less, fulfilled.