Let $M = \Bbb Q(\sqrt 2, \sqrt 3)$. Clearly, $\Bbb Q \subset M$ is normal of degree $4$ and $M \subset M(u)$ is normal of degree $2$, so you have to show that every $\Bbb Q$-conjugate of $u^2$ also has its square roots in $K$.
So for each automorphism $\sigma \in Gal(M/\Bbb Q)$, you have to show that $\sigma(u^2)u^2$ is a square in $M$. In particular it's enough to show that $(9-5\sqrt 3)(9+5\sqrt 3)$ and $(2-\sqrt 2)(2+\sqrt 2)$ are squares in $M$.
$(9-5\sqrt 3)(9+5\sqrt 3) = 81-75 = 6$, and $\sqrt 6 \in M$.
$(2-\sqrt 2)(2+\sqrt 2) = 2$, and $\sqrt 2 \in M$.
This shows that the conjugates of $u$ are $\pm u, \pm \frac {\sqrt 2}{2-\sqrt 2}u, \pm \frac{\sqrt 6}{9-5\sqrt 3}u$, and $\pm 2\sqrt 3 /u$, and they are all in $K$.
You get the action of those transformations on $\sqrt 2$ and $\sqrt 3$ by looking at what they do to $u^2$.
Then you can compute the multiplication table of the Galois group and see it is isomorphic to the quaternion group.