Let $F:\cal{A}\to\cal{C}$ and $G:\cal{B}\to\cal{C}$ be functors, and let $(F\downarrow G)$ be the comma category of $F$ and $G$.
My question is, how do we know that the Hom-sets are pariwise disjoint? The only case I am struggling with is where we have the four objects: $$(A,f,B)\quad (C,g,D)$$ $$(A,f',B)\quad (C,g',D)$$ with $f\neq f'$ and $g\neq g'$. To be more explicit, how do we know that there are no pairs of morphisms $(\phi,\psi)$ such that both squares $$ \require{AMScd} \begin{CD} FA @>{F\phi}>> FC\\ @V{f}VV @VV{g}V \\ GB @>{G\psi}>> GD \end{CD}\quad\quad\quad \begin{CD} FA @>{F\phi}>> FC\\ @V{f'}VV @VV{g'}V \\ GB @>{G\psi}>> GD \end{CD} $$ commute? That is, $$(A,f,B)\xrightarrow{(\phi,\psi)}(C,g,D)\quad\text{and}\quad(A,f',B)\xrightarrow{(\phi,\psi)}(C,g',D).$$