Problem: Show that $$ \begin{pmatrix} 0 & 1 \\ 1 & 0 \end{pmatrix}, \begin{pmatrix} 1 & 0 \\ 0 & -1 \end{pmatrix} $$ Are not similar over GL$_n ( \mathbb{F}_2)$
Note: We write $ \mathbb{F}_2= \text{GF}(2)$ the Galois Field, just in case people use a different notation.
I assume that this problem is ridiculously easy, but I couldn't find a satisfying way to show the statement as above. I have read a couple of similar problems on this website and found this great comment by @J.M. on How do I tell if matrices are similar?
"The simplest test you can make is to see whether their characteristic polynomials are the same. This is necessary, but not sufficient for similarity (it is related to having the same eigenvalues)."
So I did this for the above and got two characteristic polynomials that differ in their sign, hence they would not be similar. My problem now is, that with this approach I did not even make use of the statement that my invertible Matrix, lets call it $P$ has to be in $\mathbb{F}_2$.
So my most naive approach was to define a general Matrix $P$ as follows: $$P := \begin{pmatrix} a & b \\ c & d \end{pmatrix} $$ and use $A=P^{-1}BP \implies PA=BP$ where $A$ is the first Matrix on the left as stated in the problem and $B$ the latter. My next naive step was to perform the calculations $$PA=BP \iff \begin{pmatrix} b & a \\ d & c \end{pmatrix} = \begin{pmatrix} a & b \\ -c & -d \end{pmatrix} $$ Well and my last thought was that two matrices are equal if and only if their entries are equal. This gave me $b=a, d=-c$ and these entries have to be in $\mathbb{F}_2$, so I don't see how this could be a contradiction.
I would have said that now $$P = \begin{pmatrix} a & a \\ -d & d \end{pmatrix} $$ and next looked at the special case that all the entries are $1$, which would work considering the Mathematica output for P.A == H.P