Consider a commutative diagram
r r'
0 <--- M' <--- M <--- M'' <--- 0
| | |
| f' | f | f''
V V V
0 <--- N' <--- N <--- N'' <--- 0
k k'
with exact rows and with $f'$ and $f''$ being isomorphisms.
This can be viewed, by completing with zeroes, as a double complex. Since the complex has finitely many non-zero components, the two standard spectral sequences that arise from the filtration by rows and the filtration by columns both converge to the homology of the total complex, which I shall denote $X$.
The first spectral sequence ${}^IE$, which arises from the filtration by rows, has zero ${}^IE^1$ term, exactly because we have assumed that the rows are exact. Since ${}^IE$ converges to $H_\bullet(X)$, we see that $H_\bullet(X)=0$, that is, that the total complex is exact.
Now the second spectral sequence ${}^{II}E$, which arises from the filtration by rows, has $1$st term ${}^{II}E_1$ as in the following diagram
R R'
0 <--- ker f' <--- ker f <--- ker f'' <--- 0
0 <--- coker f'' <--- coker f <--- coker f'' <--- 0
K K'
with the horizontal maps $R$, $R'$, $K$ and $K'$ induced by the maps $r$, $r'$ and $k$, $k'$ in the original diagram. Since $f'$ and $f''$ are isomorphisms, this is really
0 <--- 0 <--- ker f <--- 0 <--- 0
0 <--- 0 <--- coker f <--- 0 <--- 0
It follows that all the differentials in the ${}^{II}E_1$ term are zero, so the ${}^{II}E_2$ in fact equals ${}^{II}E_1$ as a graded object. Moreover, the way the non-zero objects in ${}^{II}E_2$ are placed implies immediately that the differentials in all the terms ${}^{II}E_r$ with $r\geq2$ vanish, so that ${}^{II}E_\infty={}^{II}E_1$. Finally, the shape of ${}^{II}E_\infty$ and the fact that ${}^{II}E$ converges to zero imply that ${}^{II}E_1$ is itself zero. In other words, $\ker f$ and $\operatorname{coker}f$ are zero: this, of course, tells us that $f$ is an isomorphism.
(If we don't assume that $f'$ and $f''$ are isomorphisms, the ${}^{II}E_1$ has non-trivial differentials, and the spectral sequence ${}^{II}E$ only degenerates at ${}^{II}E_3$. If you write down exactly what this means, you will obtain the Snake Lemma—: the one non-zero differential in ${}^{II}E_2$ is the connecting homomorphism)