I want to solve the following problem in T.Tao's random matrix theory book. Let $X$ be a random variable with finite second momment. A median $M(X)$ of $X$ saisfies $\mathbb{P}(X>M(X)),\mathbb{P}(X<M(X))\leq 1/2$. Now I wan to prove that for any median: $$M(X)=\mathbb{E}(X)+O((\mathbb{Var}(X))^{1/2})$$
I think we have to use Chebyshev's inequality for this, which I have done to obtain: $$\mathbb{P}(X>\lambda \sigma)\leq \mathbb{P}(|X|>\lambda \sigma)\leq \frac{1}{\lambda ^2}$$ where $\sigma=(\mathbb{Var}(X))^{1/2}$. But I fail to interprete this...