I am self studying pure mathematics as a hobby (no connection to my career at all). I have been working my way through a few analysis texts, and have a broad goal of learning analysis at the level of the Stein/Shakarchi books, differential geometry, and topology (inspiration from working through Rudin/Pugh). If I make it that far, I would eventually want to study probability theory and mathematical physics. I have lots of books and know math stackexchange is a great resource as well. One of my challenges in doing the proof exercises, is when referencing solutions, if they exist, my proof may have differences from the official (or unofficial) solutions - and these differences can either be subtle or a completely different approach. While I will oftentimes discover an error in my reasoning when comparing solutions (and gain some intuition in the process), sometimes I can’t reconcile if mine is actually wrong or if it is just another way to prove the statement (even if I am very confident in my solution before comparing it). This has led to some frustration on my end and uncertainty if I am actually making progress in understanding the material.
For those who have had experience and success with self study of pure mathematics (particularly at higher levels), did you have similar difficulties and do you have any advice on how to approach doing textbook exercises and knowing if you are making progress? I ask as these are lofty goals, will require a huge time commitment (already very busy as it is lol), and I wonder if they are at all realistic.
Thanks in advance.