If we are to use things, they should be defined. I've never seen a mathematical definition of $\approx$ though, something that any given computer could precisely understand and execute, regardless of human input and customs.
If I say $\frac{\sin(x)}{x}\to1$ as $x\to0$, I can actually give meaning to this outside of saying "look at the graph, it gets close to 1".
$$\lim\limits_{x\to0}\frac{\sin(x)}{x}=1\iff\forall\epsilon>0\exists\delta>0:0<|x|<\delta\implies\left|\frac{\sin(x)}{x}-1\right|<\epsilon$$
We can also say $\frac{\sin(x)}{x}-1\in\mathcal{O}(x^{2})$ as $x\to0$ meaningfully without talk of mystical "small values".
$$\frac{\sin(x)}{x}-1\in\mathcal{O}(x^{2})\iff\exists\delta>0\exists M>0:0<|x|<\delta\implies\left|\frac{\sin(x)}{x}-1\right|\leq Mx^{2}$$
But can we rigourously say $\frac{\sin(x)}{x}\approx1$ as $x\approx0$ or as $x\to0$? Let's look at it as any other binary relation.
$a\approx b\implies b\approx a$ should hold if it measures some kind of closeness, so it's likely symmetric.
$a\approx a$ I'm not sure about. If you said $0.\dot{9}\approx 1$ you'd expect to be chastised. "They're equal, not approximately equal" some would say, as if it can only be one. So I'm not sure what the consensus would be on whether it's reflexive. I'd say probably.
$a\approx b\land b\approx c\implies a\approx c$ should probably not hold. Some would agree that $3.3\approx3.4$ and that $3.4\approx3.5$, but would they say $3.3\approx3.5$? Perhaps, so let's keep going. $3.5\approx3.6$, $3.6\approx3.7$, ... ${}^{10000}10000\approx{}^{10000}10000+0.1$ $3.3\approx{}^{10000}10000+0.1$ would likely not be seen as true, so it's not transitive. And if it does have reason to be true, we've got no shortage of numbers of increasing size (and we could also go backwards to the negatives for one of the sides, for extra security).
Looking at potential properties still doesn't define it though. Surely there must be some non-arbitrary $\epsilon$ action somewhere, for this sort of topic. We could simply state that $\forall\epsilon>0, a\approx_{\epsilon}b\iff |a-b|<\epsilon$, but that isn't a single binary relation. If we select one of those $\epsilon$ to have $\approx_{\epsilon}$ mean $\approx$, well, which? Every single $\epsilon$ is an arbitrary choice.
I notice that $a\gg b$ and $a\ll b$ suffer the same pitfalls, but they're used much less than $\approx$. It's currently more useful to get the answer to the question: does $\pi\approx\frac{22}{7}$, and precisely why or why not?
As a bonus, this definition works in any metric space, replacing the norm by a distance.
– Tristan Nemoz Sep 16 '24 at 11:53