From the definition of divergence of a smooth vector field $F:\mathbb{R}^n\to \mathbb{R}^n$, $\mathbb{div}F:=\lim_{|V|\to 0}\frac{\int_{\partial V}F\cdot do}{|V|},$ where $\partial V$ is a piece-wise smooth $n-1$ dimensional surface, how can we directly prove $$\mathbb{div}F=\sum_{n=1}^n \frac{\partial F^i}{\partial x_i}??$$ I can verify this for special choice of $\partial V$, such as rectangles centered around a point $x$. But how can we prove this for all piece-wise smooth $\partial V$??
I know we can prove $\int_V \frac{\partial u}{\partial x_i}dV =\int_{\partial V}u v_i do$, where $v_i$ is the $i$-th component of normal unit vector on $\partial V$ and $u$ is smooth on $\overline{V}$. But that only works after we have known the formula above. Thanks.