Firstly, the operations of addition and multiplication are just binary operators, that is an operator say, $\#$, that works on any two elements out of a mathematical set, $S$.
We can say that those two elements $a,b \in S$, are in the set and can be operated on $a\; \# \;b$ to get another $c \in S$. This property, of taking a binary operation on two elements of a set to get another element of a set is the fundamental axiom of what we call a group. There are infact other properties that $\#$ must have to qualify for a group, notably there must be some $e \in S$ that $a\; \# \;e = e \; \# \; a = a$, and inverses that exist. However, you can look into that more on your own.
Back to your original question, addition and multiplication as you describe them, are simple two binary operations that have come to mean a whole lot to the world as a whole as they generally do a good job at combining numbers we observe in every day life.
The property you describe as "ease" of multiplication I assume is in large part due to its distributivity, as both multiplication and addition are communities (the order of the elements being operated on does not matter) and associate (the order of successive calls of the operator does not matter). Which I should note, these properties, especially commutativity are rare and special to come by!
As multiplication is in fact a shorthand to express addition, distributivity can be "proved" as follows:
$$(a+b)*(c) = \sum^{c}_{1}{a+b} = \sum^{c}_{1}{a} + \sum^{c}_{1}{c} = a*c + b*c. $$
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This property is in large part why it is so much easier to deal with values as you describe in physics, where simplification in large part is due to the grouping and solving of sub expressions that can be most readily extracted out using distributivity.
I also suggest you ponder over further opertators that are extensions atop multiplication themselves! Such as exponent, $2^3 = 2*2*2$, or even the awesome arrow notation, $2 \uparrow \uparrow 3 = 2^{2^2} $.
It is a simple question, but one at the heart of abstract algebra and number theory, two topics that would appear to interest you. Rings, groups, fields, and on! I hope this helps.
I'm much more happy to deal with multiplication than I am to deal with the stubbornness of addition. What do you mean by that? Also https://www.maa.org/external_archive/devlin/devlin_06_08.html – user5402 Aug 01 '17 at 17:49