I understand the general method of the proof why a norm is a continuous function, for example https://math.stackexchange.com/a/265595/188401.
However I am struggling to comprehend why the smallness of the distance between $x$ and $y$ is also measured by the norm. So let $(X, \|\cdot \|)$ be normed space. Let $x, y \in X$. The norm is defined as a function $x \mapsto \|x\|$, so by definition the norm symbol $\| \|$ is assigned to the range, not the domain. So a priori why do we measure the distance $|x-y|$ in terms of the norm $\|x-y\|$, and not by something else?
Edit for clarity. This is a copy and paste of a part of the answer from the above link. We need to prove: $$\forall (x_n):\mathbb{N}\to X\ x_n\to x\implies \left\|x_n\right\|\to \left\|x\right\|$$
Let $\epsilon>0$ and $(x_{n})$ be an arbitrary sequence in $X$ that converges to $x \in X$. Then
$$\exists N\in \mathbb{N}:n\ge N\implies \left\|x_n-x\right\|<\epsilon$$
etc...
My question is: in the last line above, why do we measure distance between $x_{n}$ and $x$ in the norm? $x_{n}$ converges to some $x$, but they are just elements of $X$ before the norm function is applied...