Recently, someone stated that every short exact sequence (of, say, modules) of the form $$0 → M → M \oplus N → N → 0$$ splits. I think this is false in general because the arrow $M → M \oplus N$ might not be the natural inclusion. (The difference pointwise isomorphic/diagramwise isomorphic.)
Maybe one can realize an arrow $M\oplus N → N$ with a kernel isomorphic to $M$, but not being an (internal) direct summand of $M \oplus N$? I tried something along the lines of $ℚ$ and $ℚ/ℤ$, but I have been unsuccessful so far.
Can anyone provide me with a counterexample?