My favorite source for this staff is Bourbaki "Lie Groups and Lie Algebras", Vol. 4-6. In short, there is a bijection between finite-dimensional complex semisimple Lie algebras and finite reduced root systems. An irreducible root system is almost uniquely determined by the corresponding finite reflection group (the Weyl group). The sole exception is the fact that the Weyl groups $W$ of the root systems $B_n$ and $C_n$ happen to be isomorphic (as reflection groups, meaning that an abstract isomorphism sends reflections to reflections), while $B_n$ is not isomorphic to $C_n$ if $n\ge 3$. Other than that, non-isomorphic irreducible root systems have non-isomorphic Weyl groups. The proof of the latter is simply by inspection (looking through the list of Dynkin diagrams).
One more thing: If you do not insist on isomorphisms sending reflections to reflections then you get some weird examples such as $G_2\cong A_2\times A_1$ (the dihedral group of the order 12 is isomorphic to the product of the dihedral group of order 6 and with ${\mathbb Z}_2$). On the other hand, of course, the Lie algebra ${\mathfrak g}_2$ is not isomorphic to $sl(3)\oplus sl(2)$.
Edit. As requested, one more "exotic" isomorphism between finite Weyl groups is:
$$
B_{2k+1}\cong A_1 \times D_{2k+1},
$$
everything else can be traced to these two examples. (I am sure this was known long time ago.) See section 2.3 of
B. Baumeister, T. Gobet, K. Roberts, P. Wegener, On the Hurwitz action in finite Coxeter groups, Journal of Group Theory, Vol. 20 (2017).
As for infinite finitely generated Coxeter groups, much is known about "diagram rigidity", but no complete answer (yet).